“Some people find fault like there is a reward for it” —Zig Ziglar.     


                

Some people feel that they need to tell everyone about every little fault that they find in every situation. Indeed, they do believe in the problem, not in the solution.

Those people often spend their time finding fault in each and everything except themselves. They just pop-up and make noise and do to try to seem important by putting down others. It's not their fault only thing is that this mentality does not let them see beyond their ego. 

They have always been like this- often try to control you by guilt-tripping. A Nitpicker lists everything they don't like in others, by doing so they feel significant and validate.So true! Pick on others is the easiest way to hide your flaws. But it takes courage to admit your mistakes. 
The bitter truth is these people are everywhere. Their words and actions can be toxic enough to shatter your self-confidence. Actually, Faultfinder lives in the illusion of being superior, entangled in their mind maze.

The best way to minimise their impact, don't buy into the argument. A person who finds fault in everything is a person to be avoided. Just filter the pieces of advice and move on with life.

Someone said-It is much easier to find fault than to find ways to help. How easy to be critical and how hard to be correct.

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कई लोगों को लगता है कि उन्हें हर छोटी गलती के बारे में हर किसी को बताना होगा जो उन्हें दिखती है। वे समस्या में विश्वास करते हैं, समाधान में नहीं।

वे लोग अक्सर अपने अलावा सभी चीजों में दोष खोजने में अपना समय व्यतीत करते हैं। यह मानसिकता उन्हें अपने अहंकार से परे नहीं देखने देती। वे बस शोर करते हैं और दूसरों को नीचे रखकर महत्वपूर्ण दिखने की कोशिश करते हैं। वे उन सभी चीजों को सूचीबद्ध करता है जो उन्हें दूसरों में पसंद नहीं हैं।

वे किसी भी प्रासंगिक सिद्धांत के बिना गलती चुनना पसंद करते हैं क्योंकि यह उन्हें महत्व और आत्म-संतुष्टि देता है। वे हमेशा से ऐसे ही रहे हैं- वे अपराध-बोध के द्वारा आपको नियंत्रित करने की कोशिश करते हैं।वे श्रेष्ठ होने के भ्रम में रहता है, अपने मन के चक्रव्यूह में फंसे रहते हैं.

कड़वा सच है ये लोग हर जगह हैं। उनके शब्द और कार्य आपके आत्मविश्वास को चकनाचूर करने के लिए पर्याप्त विषाक्त हो सकते हैं।

उनके प्रभाव को कम करने का सबसे अच्छा तरीका, तर्क में न पड़ें । एक व्यक्ति जो हर चीज में गलती पाता है, वह है जिसे टाला जाए। उन्हें प्रसन्न करना बंद करो। और जीवन के साथ आगे बढ़ें।
किसी ने कहा-मदद करने के तरीके खोजने की तुलना में गलती खोजना बहुत आसान है।
सच है! अपनी खामियों को छिपाने का सबसे आसान तरीका है दूसरों में खामियां ढूढ़ना, लेकिन अपनी गलतियों को स्वीकार करने के लिए साहस चाहिए।

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