Suicide not a release!




Life is precious, but sometimes it is ended in a very unusual way. Leave many questions behind. A person who chooses death over life, probably going through the pain we can never envision. Suffering is great that he/she cannot bear it for another minute. But people who are left behind also feel abandoned or unworthy. They have to live their lives in agony and feeling of rejection hardly leave them. Life of their families and friends turns upside down before they understand anything. A life that never will be the same again. The weight of refusal, they carry on the shoulder, break them into pieces. But we can not blame the person who commits suicide. 

  A person who gives up on life, the pain is extreme and his/her mind is clouded with uncertainty. Where they think this is the only way to end their suffering. At that time, people consider "SUICIDE" as a release, actually transfers the pain closet to them. They think life is being cruel to them and unfavourable all the time. A person sees themselves guilty of all blunder- broken relationship, financial problem, business failure and so many other things. They See their lives as a burden on others and think the situation will not improve. Sometimes, there is no warning sign and decisions are made under the storm of emotions. That left everyone in turmoil and dilemma. 

But, I strongly believe, there is always a reason to put off (suicide)this decision. There is always an answer to your problem. You have to find a way to reach the solution. Life is a precious gift should not be ended this way. Approach every possible way to helps you to restore faith in life. Consult with your friends, family or seek help from a qualified person. Share, talk but do not bottle up your emotions. Be a warrior!

 Yes, it is a horrible choice a person makes, but do not blame yourself either. It’s better to find out what caused the problem and how to solve it or prevent it next time.

"But in the end, one needs more courage to live than to kill himself"
~Albert Camus~

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आत्महत्या कोई हल  नहीं है। 



एक व्यक्ति जो जीवन पर मृत्यु का चुनाव करता है, शायद उस   दर्द से गुजर रहा है जिसकी  हम कभी कल्पना नहीं कर सकते। पीड़ा इतनी बड़ी होती  है कि वह इसे एक और मिनट नहीं सहन कर सकता है। जो लोग पीछे छोड़ दिए जाते हैं। उन्हें पीड़ा में अपने जीवन जीना पड़ता है और अस्वीकृति की भावना उन्हें मुश्किल से छोड़ देती है। संभावनाएं बहुत अधिक हैं कि गहरे दर्द की स्थिति में, (आत्महत्या करने वाले), लोग अपने कार्य के विनाशकारी प्रभाव को नहीं सोचते हैं।  उनके पीछे रह जाने वाले लोग ऐसा जीवन जीते हैं  जो कभी भी पहले जैसा  नहीं होगा। 


 एक व्यक्ति जो जीवन के ऊपर मृत्यु को चुनता है  उसका दिमाग अनिश्चितता से ढका होता  है। जहां वे सोचते हैं कि यह उनकी पीड़ा को समाप्त करने का एकमात्र तरीका है। उस समय, लोग आत्महत्या को  एक मुक्ति  के तौर पर देखते हैं, वास्तव में दर्द को  उनके परिवार पर स्थानांतरित कर देता  है। आप सोच सकते हैं कि जीवन आपके लिए क्रूर और हर समय प्रतिकूल है। एक व्यक्ति खुद को टूटे रिश्तों, वित्तीय समस्या, व्यापार विफलता और कई अन्य चीजों के लिए  दोषी मानता है। दूसरों पर अपने जीवन को बोझ की तरह देखते हैं, और सोचते हैं  कि स्थिति में सुधार नहीं हो सकता है। कभी कभी कोई व्यक्ति कोई संकेत भी नही देता की उसके मन में क्या चल रहा है। हर किसी को उथल-पुथल और दुविधा में छोड़ जाता है।
लेकिन, मैं दृढ़ता से विश्वास करता हूं, इस निर्णय को हमेशा (आत्महत्या) टाला जा सकता है। आपकी समस्या का हमेशा उत्तर है। आपको समाधान तक पहुंचने का एक तरीका ढूंढना है। जीवन एक अनमोल उपहार  है।  इसे इस तरह से समाप्त नहीं किया जाना चाहिए। जीवन में विश्वास बहाल करने में आपकी सहायता करने के हर संभव तरीके से दृष्टिकोण। अपने दोस्तों, परिवार से परामर्श लें या एक योग्य व्यक्ति से सहायता लें। साझा करें, बात करें लेकिन अपनी भावनाओं को अपने अंदर न दबाएं।  एक योद्धा बनो!

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