“Some people find fault like there is a reward for it” —Zig Ziglar.

Some people feel that they need to tell everyone about every little fault that they find in every situation. Indeed, they do believe in the problem, not in the solution.
Those people often spend their time finding fault in each and everything except themselves. They just pop-up and make noise and do to try to seem important by putting down others. It's not their fault only thing is that this mentality does not let them see beyond their ego. 
They have always been like this- often try to control you by guilt-tripping. A Nitpicker lists everything they don't like in others, by doing so they feel significant and validate.So true! Pick on others is the easiest way to hide your flaws. But it takes courage to admit your mistakes.

The bitter truth is these people are everywhere. Their words and actions can be toxic enough to shatter your self-confidence. Actually, Faultfinder lives in the illusion of being s…

Surrender & Surrender

Surrender & Surrender

The Gift

                          Do not let others control the key of your inner peace.

One day, the Buddha and a large following of monks and nuns were passing through a village. The Buddha chose a large shade tree to sit beneath so the group could rest awhile out of the heat. He often chose times like these to teach, and so he began to speak. Soon, villagers heard about the visiting teacher and many gathered around to hear him.

One surly young man stood to the side, watching, as the crowd grew larger and larger. To him, it seemed that there were too many people travelling from the city to his village, and each had something to sell or teach. Impatient with the bulging crowd of monks and villagers, he shouted at the Buddha, "Go away! You just want to take advantage of us! You, teachers, come here to say a few pretty words and then ask for food and money!"
But the Buddha was unruffled by these insults. He remained calm, exuding a feeling of loving-kindness. He politely requested th…

Before setting a goal, ask some questions to yourself

Goal setting can be difficult, overwhelming and stressful sometimes. People give up and surrender to their dreams when they face constant failure.  We have a vague idea of what we need, yet it seems hard to achieve. 
What do I want from my life?  The answer to this question will give you a deeper vision of all areas of your life. Asking question is imperative because sometimes our goals can be influenced by other achievement or success story. As a matter of fact, when people see the famous person and their luxurious lifestyle, many of them try and push themselves to have the same lifestyle.  For example, in India, many youngsters run away from home to Mumbai only to become a film star without proper research and training which leads them to frustration, anxiety or depression. It does not mean the having dream to be a Film star is wrong or impossible but prepare yourself for every possible outcomes or obstacle and take step accordingly. Proper research and study will help you to set up …
Travel Is My Therapy
I love to travel, exploring new things, meeting with new people, You can call me a travel bug. Travel is my therapy.
"Travel is about the gorgeous feeling of teetering in the unknown." -Anthony Bourdain
Travelling makes you richer in many aspects of life and facilitates your growth. The more you travel, the smarter you become. It enables you to explore more about yourself and gives a new vision you look the world. When you dive into the unknown you learn something new and gain experience. Indeed, it makes you feel more alive. Travel adds more colour and adventure to your life. Every journey is a new story and every road has a story to tell. When we travel it does not mean life stops. It continues, but we live from a different perspective. It scales your vision towards life and stretches your mind with new experiences or memories.

“Once a year, go someplace you’ve never been before.” — Dalai Lama.
This quote encourages me to pack my bag and leave for that u…

Male vs Female Are they really equal?

Let's fly, Be the Butterfly  ~Ananta Yogi

 "Love is the Sea where intellect drowns" ~Rumi

Male and female two integral part of society, two-wheel of a cart, once they were aware of each other importance and now ready to tear apart to each other.

So balance is no more in that cart.
What happened to us? What is this competition for? Just take a pause and think about it.
Male and female both have unique qualities. Both have feminine and masculine energy but the dominance of energy decide their nature.
Feminine energy is all about playing, creating, love, emotion and Masculine are all about Wisdom, action, protection. Both are necessary to live in this society, they cannot be replaced with each other. Things which are similar in nature, shape or attributes can be compared and then one of them can be big/ small, superior/ inferior or equal but here both have unique attributes so how and why we compare and try to replace each other.
Can we…